You called me out for this before and I provided the evidence that I had reciprocated, but you do no always reciprocate my friend. If someone claps or reads an article through the Medium app or website the author is suddenly obligated to return the favor. This is different from sharing a link on Facebook and saying you will reciprocate, in those cases it is only fair if they do.
Even after I pointed it out to you your failure to reciprocate on one of my articles you didn't... so it is a little hypocritical.
Holding onto the negative feelings doesn't always benefit you and it can blind you from genuine engagement if your baseline assumption is that people are always trying to take and not give.